Earlier this month, the U.S. version of Marie Claire magazine requested some advice from Gerald Nissenbaum, a well known divorce lawyer, in order to learn how to hide your extramarital relationships and with the help of his tips on invisibility, how to avoid a painful and costly divorce.
Of course, Gerald Nissenbaum is a nice chap and he would never advise readers to cheat on their partners, but his advice was very clear, if there is another relationship, then it is better to keep this a complete secret. This is the key to living happily with a wife and a mistress.
How do you hide a relationship to your wife? First, you do not tell anyone, not even your best friend or the guys at the gold club. You never know who will tell his wife who might happen to be a close friend of your own wife. It is a small world after all and when you cheat on you wife, you don’t want this small world to catch up with you and your trousers. Secondly, do not use your mobile to send messages to your girlfriend or your lover. Do not send mail or email either. If you create another account, be careful of browsing history. There is a quick option in most current browsers such as Internet Explorer or Firefox to delete your history. Basically, just avoid anything that might betray your affair. If you are a regular with one or more girls from an escort agency, they can also give you peace of mind and 100% discretion.
Gerlad goes even further and he strongly discourage anyone to even take their mobile to a sexy rendez-vous because it might be equipped with a spy gps and your wife may well find you ...Also, think about where you park your car. If it is left on a drive for a few hours, someone could notice.
So this is all great advice thank to an expert. There is also another important point - take a shower to get rid of the smell of your new girl even change clothes, it will prevent hair and traces of makeup.
Now you have been told the secret, it’s up to you to keep the affair to yourself and your new conquest.